Happy 26th Birthday to Me!!!

Whoaaa..another year passed by just like that.

I am turning 26 and am in New York, wow…could it be in a better place?

Measuring from where i come, i am 26th already, but since am in NYC at the moment, so its 12 hours behind, i dunno whether i should already tell myself a happy birthday wish, or follow the time at where i am now??!@!

Anyway… am not sure of how happy i am now, but for sure am feelin uncertainty of what am doin, and who am with at the moment. Things are not just as easy as i thought it would be, but what IF am in a different situation, would i rather be in THIS situation? it could have been worst, right?

Well, id like to take this moment to say good bye to my 25 previous years of living.

Happy Birthday to me, and hope things will get better in the future.

Love Me Love Me Love Me


Neng's last day of 25 yo

Neng's last day of 25 yo @ Empire State Building

Psssstttt….its cold in New York….bbbrrrrrrrr…..


4 thoughts on “26

    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
    If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

    Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
    Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

    Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what
    makes you truly happy.

    If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
    then heck no, you can’t “be friends”.A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

    Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

    Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.”
    You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
    Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
    He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you
    any differently?

    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak

    Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.

    You cannot change a man’s behaviour.* Change comes from within.

    Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has
    more education or in a better job.

    Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

    Never let a man define who you are.

    Never borrow someone else’s man.
    If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

    All men are NOT dogs.

    You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way

    You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about
    baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you..
    a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals..
    look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

    Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.

    Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are,
    and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.

    Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man.

    Share this with other women and men (just so they know)… You’ll
    make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman

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